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Monday, July 4, 2022

A great Oregon trip

 A group of us from Cambria......7 adults, 4 dogs, 2 RV,s and a car..... spent two weeks in Oregon. Four of us hiked selected sections of the Oregon Coast trail, accomplishing about 10-13 miles a day....at least by my fit bit. Other joined us on a few stretches and Treva, Mike and Joel gave us transport support. The trail meanders between Hwy 1 and the ocean going through the forest and often giving access to beautiful views and beaches. Thanks Janet, for planning a wonderful trip. 


Do we know where we are going?


The first night in Redding. 
Treva and friend Mike in his rv in the parking lot, 
The rest of us in a hotel and hot tub.

A nice lunch on the Rogue River
Then we follow the RV in the rain
to Seaside...



First hike from Seaside south
I call "Hiking in the Rain and Mud"
We did get to see the hiker camp
we would be staying at
if we were backpacking.
We chose to do this trip with daypacks.
  


The next day, more of the same.
Our first long hike....10 miles 
of sticky, ankle deep mud.
  We loved it....when it was over.











Janet slips in the mud







Our shoes need scrubbing and our
morals boosting. At the end of the day it was fun.
There were backpackers doing the whole trail
doing laundry with us.










Making time to play with the dogs on the beach.
That's where we are headed tomorrow.

Secret Beach



Camping at Cape Blanco











Let me introduce the characters:
Janet, our planner, Treva her daughter
 ready for any support task, 
Mike, her patient friend,
 full of good knowledge about RVs,
 Sue, waving hi to her Mike
who chose to stay home.
. Mary and Randy,
always at the front on the trails.
and Joel, who bravely drove the rental RV.







Good breakfast at Cannon Beach



Mike cooks the burgers.
 MJ joins  us and brings local
Tillamook Ice Cream







We gather for breakfasts in the RV





Sadie and I travel together.




 We meet up with Kathy and Lyle

and hike to the lighthouse at Point Blanco




We hike part way together ...some river crossings.








Very doable so far....although we were warned
that the Elk crossing was bad....




After saying goodbye to Kathy, Lyle and Joel 
we continued on our hike to agate beach


We removed our shoes to cross the mighty Elk River.
OK it doesn't look that bad in the photos...
but it swept Mary off her feet. 
Randy quickly gave the dog to Janet and went to rescue her,
   They both ended up crawling out, soaking wet








We were sensible and looked for another crossing.
To make a long story short,
we ended up climbing up onto private property,
meeting the owner, Carol. Charmed her into letting 
us trespass, called Joel for a ride and hiked down
her private road to meet him. We even told her 
we were Californians to which she bumped
her forehead and rolled her eyes.

Those are sheep between the trees.







In Yachats I stay in the hiker/biker rooms









Earlier,  we hiked to the lighthouse
at Point Blanco





We hike to the lighthouse



Treva's birthday dinner


Randy cooks a Tri Tip for Treva's birthday




More ice cream for dessert


and a good nights sleep 
in my cozy tent

Working our way south.





Great views. lovely beaches, good exercise




A great lunch spot





We used a rope to climb down to this beach.









Sometimes the trail is hard to find


Sometimes we emerge at the highway
We were able to hike from Arch rock
 to Brookings along the scenic corridor.
We stayed in a cabin at Whales Head resort


Our traditional harem pants photo.



Sadie sleeps well even though she doesn't hike.

Treva collects rocks


We see Banana Slugs






This is where the trail abruptly ends at Brookings



And Randy tries to get us a ride ...
actually, Treva picked us up.


We have so many more pics from
my camera and Janets....
more added later....













Wednesday, June 8, 2022

We said goodbye to our Dad, grandad, Great Grandad.

 

On May 22nd 2022 our dear dad, Grandad, Great grandad Oscar Farmer, passed away peacefully at the great age of 93. He led a happy and fulfilling life but is now happier to be united with his wife of 70 years, Gwen. Sue had the great honor of spending time with him in his last few weeks.

                                            

                                                          He was a great dad

                                

                                                 He enjoyed his six grandchildren

                                   Kelly, Cameron, Kristen, Danielle, Michaela and Alex 

                                  

                                                           He was a caring husband to Gwen, 

                                                Staying by her side until her death in 2019

                                               

                                              He loved to sketch and paint big canvasses.

                                                                   Bill playing guitar


                                             

                                                We enjoyed many family weddings together.


Visits from Cameron and his family



Simon visiting

Enjoying conversation with Bixby





Visiting three Granddaughters
Kelly, Michaela and Kristen and Danielle
and his great grandchildren




Chair dancing with Sue at Creston Village
during Covid restrictions


Playing fair games with Kelly and Bixby
They won a whole box of glasses
tossing the pennies.

Dancing with mom


He loved his work as an architect / Designer
especially his later work with his son William
designing Cap Juluca on the island of Anguilla.


And Temenos, a group of private villas
on Anguilla.
This project was published in Architectural Digest.


He took us there  for a vacation.
It was an honor to enjoy this beautiful work.



The architects....pondering




Three generations of Architects


We emigrated as a family from England to California
in 1965. 


We enjoyed a good family,
a good childhood





Our dad was a "bit of a wag"
fooling around with my moms mom
Nanny Gainsford.


and in Sherman Oaks at a Halloween party



On the beach in Spain with Sue 1964

This is our last outing together at an art exhibit
of Bixby's ceramics, and ice cream in the park
May 2nd. He passed away on May 22nd. 
Our thanks to Creston Village where he resided
 his last few years, and to Central Coast Hospice
who saw him comfortable in his transition.
I like to think of him dancing with 
mom in heaven.
  


























 



Wednesday, April 20, 2022

March and April

 It feels wonderful when ones family is happy and following their dreams and making a good life for themselves. Arlo, working hard at university and his part time job finds time to go with his friends to Hocking Hills over Spring break. Jack brings home a report card full of mostly A,s and after his dad reminded him of how he used to dislike school, he says "what was I thinking !" The girls and Tina all doing well. Cameron has a full life with school and two jobs, but we are so proud of what they are all accomplishing.



When my mom died my friend Chris
gave me this beautiful miniature rose.
this orange color was often worn by my mom.
Its a beautiful reminder.


My dad is doing ok, happy here
 to be able to be outside and visiting.
Then he and many others tested positive
and it was back to isolation for 10 days.
He was asymptomatic fortunately.


Flowers are blooming in the garden
and enjoyed inside also.


Dad and I got to celebrate St. Patrick's day
at his place...playing pub pong


Flowers are blooming on the Ranch bluffs



An old picture from 1990 of
Sarah, Christian and Baby Oliver Garnett.
Now Ollie is married and living in San Francisco.

Sarah and Christian lived in the LA area
 while Christian was working as an architect.
We spent some good times together.
Dad worked with Christians Dad
 in the UK before we emigrated.


Cameron with Ollie at Bill and Patty's wedding


Picnics at the park

And a reunion a few weeks ago.
We were so happy that my dad, Kelly and Bixby
 could join us for dinner as Sarah and Christian,
 visiting from the UK ,passed through Cambria.




This is an old picture of myself and Judy Hightower
my friend and director 
 of Westminster Pre school in Westlake Village,
where I taught for 20 years.
She and I enjoyed working on the 
Outdoor Classroom project together, 
developing our playground, 
going to and giving workshops
 and mentoring other schools and teachers.
She passed away more than a year ago.



Mike and I attended a memorial service for Judy. 
It was nice to spend time with those special teachers, 
my past co workers and friends,
catching up with our lives.
 hearing about their grown families, 
sharing our stories, and visiting the Outdoor 
Classroom that we all helped to developed, 
and children still enjoy. Its a big part of  Judy's legacy.



Mike and I helped to plant this mulberry tree which became the beloved "house tree". When fruiting, the children would pile things to climb on inside and reach up through the branches to pick the sweet fruit on top. All we would see were little hands coming out of the top of the tree, feeling for the berries. A new bench in Judy's honor sits nearby now. The tree is thriving.


My friend Cynthia, a recreational therapist 
who often came "to play" with us,
working with our children who needed a little help.
She and I had fun popping rose petals. 
You are never too old to play....



And, lastly, the house in Cambria that we love....